COMPARE WITH YOURSELF

This month our post is about something that we all does or did in our life at least once..and that's Comparison. Comparing our life with that of other's. Comparison has two faces .. positive and negative , before we get into its discussion..let me share with you a small message about how birds are in times of adversity..
Have you ever observed the behaviour of birds in the face of adversity? For days and days they make their nest, sometimes gathering materials brought from far away. And when they have completed the nest and are ready to lay eggs, the weather or by humans, or some animals, destroys it, and it falls to the ground, all that they have done with so much effort. Do they stop... Bewildered, and leave their work ? No Way !! They start over building the nest again and again until they have eggs in the nest again. Sometimes, and very often before the chicks are hatched, an animal, a child, or a storm destroys the nest once again, but this time with its valuable contents. It hurts to go back and begin again.....Even so, the birds do not stop, they continue to sing and build , and keep singing and building. Do you sometimes get the feeling that your life, your work, your family is not what you had dreamed. 
Do you sometimes want to say 'ENOUGH', the effort is not worthwhile. It is all too much for me! Are you tired of it all? Do you feel that the daily struggle is a waste of time, your trust has been betrayed, your goals not reached, just as you were about to get them? Life strikes you down sometimes, but keep moving, say a prayer, put your faith in hope, not in murkiness? Do not worry Gather yourself together and rebuild your life, so that it runs well again.
So how is this related to comparison..
Well, it's related, if the birds started comparing their lives with that of other beings, they ll never be able to rebuild their lives during adversity..all they did was they BELIEVED IN THEMSELVES. So the more you compare, more the energy you tend to lose to persons with whom you compare..and degrade yourself. I won't say one mustn't compare, you must, but always compare with yourself each day. How better you are ,compared to previous day or year. Sometimes we search for far things that are very close to us. We tend to forget to look into ourselves. You are special the way your are.
The sun and the moon shines when it's their time. Believe in yourself and wait for your time. It takes patience and time for great things to come on your way. What I do is, I compare myself everyday. How far i have improved from yesterday. Even a single moment of my paralyzed fingers are my greatest achievements from that of it's moment on previous day.
All my post topics or heads I tend to generate from others...the issues they face in life and what makes them pessimistic....while I converse with them. Well, this one is specially for one of my friend Priyanka and few of my other friends..well, maybe all of us does.
,we nvr seems to believe in our power rather compare our  life with those of others and question God for our existence. God has given this life to fulfill a purpose..for everyone. Remember you can achieve more than you believe. You are much more than what you believe you are. Your life isn't going the way that of others, then why comparing. No one is perfect, if anyone ever have been ..then I believe it's God. Always believe in yourself and go ahead in life..when you spend time looking on to others life ,you ll end up wasting your life reaching nowhere..compare yourself , your success, your achievements not how others live their life. It helps you to undrstd where you are standing in your life. Try to be better than yesterday.
LIFE IS NOT A RACE TO WIN..like the birds rebuild yourself and grow stronger and wiser. In the tortoise and hare tale, if the tortoise had compared with the hare, he ll never be able to take part in that race and WIN. NEVER COMPARE WITH OTHERS..RATHER COMPARE WITH YOURSELF..